Have I ever told you that I was fifteen years old when I started this dream? Well, I was. Fifteen years old… young, dumb, dreaming and excited to be training to be a wrestler. I don’t know what I was thinking. I guess I thought it was all fun and games. But I quickly found out that what wrestlers do - it really hurts. I’ll never forget how it went down. I begged for my parents to let me wrestle. Although I was young, I knew I could do it. Shoot, all the kids in the neighborhood… and outside the neighborhood… would travel to my house to have the Backyard Brawl. I was “The Nature Boy” and strutted around the backyard like the top dawg… and I was. So, if I could be the Backyard Brawl Champion, I knew I could become a professional wrestler.
My mother took me to meet with Don Bass in West Memphis, Arkansas on a Saturday morning. It was really early, from what I can remember. I was pumped up and couldn’t wait to meet Don Bass. I knew I had heard the name before… but I couldn’t put the face with the name. I definitely knew who the Assassins were and I knew Don Bass was an original member of that legendary Memphis tag team. Donnie liked to meet people at a little restaurant. Basically, it was a truck stop. Donnie loved the place, plus it was easy to find.
Why did my mother take me, instead of my father? Good question. Very odd for a husband to let his wife go meet another man that we didn’t even know. Anything could’ve happened. Donnie could’ve been a maniac for all we knew. But to answer the question, my dad was lazy and unless it had anything to do with him - he wasn’t interested. He’s selfish… and he thought I’d never amount to anything. To this day, he’s only seen me wrestle live… maybe three times. Way to be proud of your son, huh?
We met with Don Bass that day and the rest was history. There wasn’t much reason for us to really meet. It was pretty brief. “So, you wanna wrestle?” “Hell yeah!” Done. From there, my mother gave me permission to train to wrestle. The price was $3,000. We could pay payments. And the only money that my parents ever paid was the down payment. A few hundred bucks and the rest was for me to pay. Reason being - well, my mother thought that I couldn’t quit if it was my money being spent on it.
I trained twice per week for over a year before I was ready to finally get in the ring. The only glitch in the training was when I lost my job for a month. I couldn’t afford to train… so I took one month off. Later, I found out that Don Bass told the others that I would never come back. That I quit. Well, I proved them wrong. I went back and finished. Although my training was done, I had a hard time getting booked because of my age and my size. I was only seventeen when I had my first match… and from then on, I was pretty much welcomed everywhere I went.
An odd story, indeed.
Ever-since I became a professional wrestler, I’ve been laughed at, looked down on - you name it. My family, especially, hated it. The money was bad and they all knew it. I had zero support, starting out. It was very tough to keep a positive attitude when every time I turned around, I was being berated for becoming a wrestler. After a few years and a little success, things slowly turned around.
Television and opportunities shut a lot of mouths. But ten years later, I’m still sitting in the independents - the same spot I was when I started. Sure, I’ve got experience under my belt. Sure, I’ve been on RAW, Smackdown!, TNA, pay-per-view, Heat, WWE.com, NWA Wildside, Memphis Wrestling, OVW… but what does it mean? Getting a small taste of all that just makes you hungrier.
I’m reading Batista’s book, now. That’s kinda what brought this all up. He started wrestling when he was thirty. But he talks about his passion for the business, although he didn’t care about it until he was discovered. He never had to fight through the indies to try to get to the top. He started at the top. Boy, that must be nice.
I’ll let you know how the book is when I finish.
Posted by Dustin Starr
at 9:20 PM EDT

Let me start this out with somewhat of a disclaimer because I know I’m going to get a little backlash on this one. I am all for the younger faces stepping up and taking the spotlight from the guys nearing their retirement. Not just in wrestling, but in any sport. Trust me when I tell you that because I’ve been on the losing end of several matches and several opportunities by guys that just didn’t know when to quit the business. They just want to beat the younger guys over and over to try and pin them down. Not passing the torch is a very bad thing in wrestling… or any other sport, for that matter. Remember - I wrestled for Memphis Wrestling, I can sympathize with the younger guys that get over-looked.
I love to read books while I’m doing cardio at the gym. I can really get down to it on the machines if I have something to do. So, I’ll listen to my iPod, read a book and burn some calories. I can not last without a book. It just passes the time so fast. The only thing is, I read pretty slow. So, it took me forever to finish reading Bret Hart’s story that was five hundred and ninety-two pages long.
As you all know, I’m currently reading the Chris Jericho book. I have discussed this in the past, and yes, I’m a slow reader and haven’t finished just yet. I’m getting there, though. But as I was going through the later chapters, I came across a very interesting story. So, I thought I would share it with the rest of you who may not have read the book… or maybe even those of you who were thinking about reading the book but haven’t made up your mind to spend the money to get it.
Being in the wrestling business and also being a long-time fan, often times a main event will not live up to its expectations. Often times, an entire pay-per-view show won’t even come close to living up to expectations. Pay-per-view shows are supposed to be the super cards with all the big matches on it, right? So, how does it fail? How does a show that’s been hyped so much for so long end up failing to meet expectations. I guess it’s simple… two reasons. Booking and performance. I would say that the majority of it is booking, though.
By now you should all know that I’m a reality TV addict. I know, I know. It’s garbage television. Everyone tells me that. But when they tell me that, they also talk about Flavor Flav, Bret Michaels, New York and the rest. For some reason, they hate on the reality TV, but they all watch it and are all aware of the revolution that’s going on. Reality TV is the only way to watch television. You get it all! You get the fights, you get the love, you get the sex, drugs, rock ‘n roll… you get it all in one fail swoop!